good weekend, but damn busy

[staxxy]

Friday: Bowling with Jilli, Pete, Jeff, Kim, Erik, Benni, Rory, Ian, and a few other people whose names escape me at the moment. After bowling we all hung out at Erik and Benni's place til the Wheee hours...

Saturday: got up and did some running around errands during the day. Got dressed and went to the hill to meet my coworker and take him to the Mercury and the Vogue for the night. He had a great time, and I of course had a fabulous time showing the clubs off and introducing him to all the people there. :D Once again, didn't get home until the Wheeeee hours...

Sunday: up early-ish with the alarm. Chatted with Spydr for a few, got myself together and went to the Goth picnic. At the picnic I hooked up with Martyn (as per the plan) and we went to my place for a lovely and LONG chat. :D And then it was off to the bath with me. By the time I was done with my bath and ready for bed it was about 11 last night.

Monday: woke up at 5:30 with the stupid alarm and here I am at work, still trying to become a person. *yawn*

There was no time to just have time this weekend. But It was a damn fine weekend all the same. Thank you to all who participated in the loveliness that was my weekend. Every single one of you made it fabulous.

*smoochies*

Comments

[inanna.livejournal.com]

Well, dear, i must say seeing you Saturday was one of the highlights of the trip. That and spending half an hour at Venus... OMG, i am going to go seriously broke there!!! :D

Please, don't forget to send me the link to the corset saga when you have time.

huggles!
inanna

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

good thing you reminded me. I had forgotten. OY.

;)

[s33kr.livejournal.com]

I wanted to thank you for the insight and general conversation as well as the opportunity to be a Goth godson :) Afterwards, as you know I went to the Spot to check out the fetish night they had.

It was kind of "eh". I was hoping it would be bigger and more people would show up. Unfortunately, that was not the case. The only person that was connected with my fetish was this drag queen that was kind of annoying. Wrong gender :) Oh well. Anywho. I am looking forward to seeing you next time for more extensive conversation about stuff. And again, thank you for the technique. It works mah-velously!

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

you are sitting in a much better way. ;)

I am terribly pleased to see you so much stronger, and I am dissappointed for you that you did not find what you sought on Sunday evening.

Alas.

We can not always find things when we go looking for them. I will keep my ear to the ground for you, my dear. You never know what I who I may find.

*smoochies*

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[s33kr.livejournal.com]

Yes, I do feel much better. I've been feeling spiritually sick for a long time and now that feeling is faded. I hope it becomes more so with time, for it has been bouncing back and forth, oh, for the last 7-8 months or so.

(thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you :)

About Sunday. I did not really expect to find anything. I knew that there is a slim chance of me actually finding a female foot fetishist right away. Of course, there is also the fact that this is the FIRST non-bdsm fetish event in Seattle that I know of. I hope this becomes more of a trend though.

I do of course very much appreciate you "keeping your ear to the ground" as well. We should get together again soon. What do you think? More so; when do you think?

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

as with any illness, it takes time to fully recover your strength. I will help you with that too when we see each other next.

Of all of the possibilities in town, this would seem to be the most likely. Unfortunatly, it is not... I would watch for women that wear high heeled sandals... They would be into their feet as well as the shoes...

Just a thought.

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[s33kr.livejournal.com]

:) I'll be seeing you soon.

As far as women go. Sure, I watch them. A pair of pretty shoes with attractive concept never goes unnoticed. But what am I gonna do with them? I don't think creeping out ladies by randomly complimenting on their shoes is such a good idea. Thoughts?

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

If a woman has a nice pair of shoes and you remark that you think she has nice shoes... As long as you are careful to not put anything more into the statement than just a compliment she should be pleased. Just about every woman I know that wears shoes that really are nice loves to have other people notice them.

*smoochies*

Perhaps you should make an experiment of complimenting one random woman on her shoes once each week. ..

If the women act all creeped out... we will work on your technique ;)

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[s33kr.livejournal.com]

Awwww. :)

Okay. I can and will try to do that. I have one question though.

Compliments are while nice and if presented in a right way can grant a smile, but I can never start a conversation like that. so, what is the purpose of me doing so?

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

a) it's not a conversation, it's just a compliment. I tend to do it somewhat randomly, compliment someone in a situation where an actual conversation is impossible, this way there is absolutely no awkward silence to deal with...

b) if you randomly compliment women on their choice of footwear, it will get you over the hurtle of it being a creepy weird thing when you compliment someone you *are* interested in...

c) it is good for the soul to make people smile.

*smoochies*

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[s33kr.livejournal.com]

All of the above is true. I will try to do it then. I also have so face my own anxiety when I do it. Whenever I see someone I am strongly attracted to I become a mumbling idiot, so it doesn't help. Compliment is a start, however.

Thank you.

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

then only compliment women when you are impressed by their shoes.

start with women you *aren't* attracted to.

:)

see points one thru 3 previous...

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[s33kr.livejournal.com]

I'll tell you of the results then :)

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[staxxy.livejournal.com]

I will be waiting. ;)