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ummmm WTF?
Feb. 6th, 2005 01:54 pmseen in the comments on a friend's LJ
"you should use protection until you know him better..."
Is this to imply that fluid bonding should be a REGULAR AND NORMAL PRACTICE early in relationships now?????
If you aren't part of a long term relationship with someone, USE SOME FUCKING COMMON SENSE AND USE A GODDAMN CONDOM. People could have STDs and not even KNOW IT. Don't be FUCKING STUPID. Don't risk your life for little heightened sensation.
and guys, if you just can't keep it up with a fucking condom on, LEARN TO LOVE MASTURBATION. Likewise, if you aren't using condoms because the church says NO, then you shouldn't be having PREMARITAL SEX either. If you are going to follow the church doctrines, then FUCKING FOLLOW THEM ALL THE GODDAMN WAY.
and yeah, I am a bit grumpy about this. And YEAH I HAVE EVERY FUCKING RIGHT TO BE.
THE REASON THAT NEITHER MY SISTER NOR I EVER GOT TO MEET OUR OWN FATHER IS THAT HE DIED OF AIDS A FEW YEARS BEFORE WE WERE OLD ENOUGH TO HUNT HIM DOWN OURSELVES.
And yeah, I know a couple of the people on my friends list have Aids. And yeah, several other friends of mine outside LJ have Aids. And no, I don't.
"you should use protection until you know him better..."
Is this to imply that fluid bonding should be a REGULAR AND NORMAL PRACTICE early in relationships now?????
If you aren't part of a long term relationship with someone, USE SOME FUCKING COMMON SENSE AND USE A GODDAMN CONDOM. People could have STDs and not even KNOW IT. Don't be FUCKING STUPID. Don't risk your life for little heightened sensation.
and guys, if you just can't keep it up with a fucking condom on, LEARN TO LOVE MASTURBATION. Likewise, if you aren't using condoms because the church says NO, then you shouldn't be having PREMARITAL SEX either. If you are going to follow the church doctrines, then FUCKING FOLLOW THEM ALL THE GODDAMN WAY.
and yeah, I am a bit grumpy about this. And YEAH I HAVE EVERY FUCKING RIGHT TO BE.
THE REASON THAT NEITHER MY SISTER NOR I EVER GOT TO MEET OUR OWN FATHER IS THAT HE DIED OF AIDS A FEW YEARS BEFORE WE WERE OLD ENOUGH TO HUNT HIM DOWN OURSELVES.
And yeah, I know a couple of the people on my friends list have Aids. And yeah, several other friends of mine outside LJ have Aids. And no, I don't.
