Just a few quick words -
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staxxyIf things are needed, services or anything, I will post here. If I know that someone else close to her needs anything I will post it here.
If you need things, let me know.
Electronic sympathy is fine. I appreciate that everyone cares, I really do. But sympathy in person and on the phone are too much. I probably won't respond with more than "thanks" to any condolences aimed at me. I appreciate the efforts, but instead of asking how I am when you see me, just give me hugs. The people that knew her are welcome to mourn with me and to ask for news and information, but I can't deal with how I feel about any of it yet. I just can't. I will eventually. (I am not talking about the random "I am here" posts that people have made, I am talking about making specific comments to me personally about it - It is just starting to be too much now - I will solicit specific help when it is needed and that is the time to step forward)
And this *is* me taking care of myself. It really is. If I know that you have a special skill that I need for something, I will call on you specifically via phone, im, or email. If you have a skill that you *KNOW FOR A FACT* would be highly useful that you may not have told me about, please email me about it. My email has been posted. And there is one in my profile.
A special thank you to the Glitzkrieg girls for their considerations. I will continue to keep everyone posted.
If you need things, let me know.
Electronic sympathy is fine. I appreciate that everyone cares, I really do. But sympathy in person and on the phone are too much. I probably won't respond with more than "thanks" to any condolences aimed at me. I appreciate the efforts, but instead of asking how I am when you see me, just give me hugs. The people that knew her are welcome to mourn with me and to ask for news and information, but I can't deal with how I feel about any of it yet. I just can't. I will eventually. (I am not talking about the random "I am here" posts that people have made, I am talking about making specific comments to me personally about it - It is just starting to be too much now - I will solicit specific help when it is needed and that is the time to step forward)
And this *is* me taking care of myself. It really is. If I know that you have a special skill that I need for something, I will call on you specifically via phone, im, or email. If you have a skill that you *KNOW FOR A FACT* would be highly useful that you may not have told me about, please email me about it. My email has been posted. And there is one in my profile.
A special thank you to the Glitzkrieg girls for their considerations. I will continue to keep everyone posted.
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