secrets of the woman's mind.. a guide for men:

[staxxy]

Ok, so it occurs to me that I can put these up for some of my male friends so that they have a jump on the game..

I promise to post them as they occur to me, or if someone asks me a particular "what the fuck is this about?" question..

ladies, please feel free to disagree if you think I am wrong..

that said.. the first hint to the woman's mind...

when preparing for an evening out, if your woman is prone to ask "how do I look?" and then change clothes...

Women tend to look for the outfit that makes you say "Wow Honey!! You look fantastic!" *spontaneously*. The biggest key is not having to ask if she looks ok. If you think she looks good in what she is wearing, beat her to the punch and tell her so. Odds are pretty high she will be less inclined to change if you start the exchange.

Compliments do not count if they must be fished for, it is like a consolation prize. ;)

ok, enough of my babble.. I am off to bed.

Comments

so true

[vorona.livejournal.com]

Yes.

And "fine" is not the correct answer.
The correct answer is what Staxxy said. Fantastic!
Beautiful! Gorgeous! Adorable! And yes, if we have
to ask, it doesn't count. Know it. Live by it.

Re: so true

[staxxy.livejournal.com]

;) "Fine" is a good description of how you *feel* but never a good description for how you look.

Yeah, but

[gwywnnydd.livejournal.com]

'Fine' tends to imply either "I'm not paying enough attention to come up with a relevant answer", or "Whatever, I'm pissed, just drop it".
THese are both bad :).

Re: Yeah, but

[staxxy.livejournal.com]

heh. also quite valid...
so true so true.

Re: so true

[wendolen.livejournal.com]

Unless it's in the form of "Daaaamn, honey, you look fine!"

;)

Re: so true

[staxxy.livejournal.com]

well yes, you've got me there.

[m-cobweb.livejournal.com]

Re. consolation prizes: Doing chores or errands without being asked is another one. Once you have to ask, it's not nearly so sweet and thoughtful.

Re: oh hey..

[staxxy.livejournal.com]

good one!!!